Ok, I know it's been FOREVER since I posted, but honestly, I'm not really "chewing"  on things as much as I used to. I mean, a few things are floating around in my life, but I don't find my self anxious or torn about them and therefore don't really need to write it all out to see if anyone can shed some light on my problems.

However, (there's always a catch, isn't there), I'm in kind of an awkward situation right now. I was "seeing" a guy a bit over the past couple of months - nothing serious... remained free to explore other avenues - when suddenly he deletes his facebook (tells me he's doing so) but then basically disappears off the face of the planet. I figure gf, right? Then he comes back with some weird-fangled story about ... welll, I'll respect his privacy and just say it was a viable explanation... and yeah. So, no big deal, right? I figure he had a life but he gaves excuses claiming he didn't have a life and yada yada yada. So now my guard is up koz, well, personally, it'd be a lot more normal for him to disappear koz he's focussed on a girl. Well, whatever's whatever and then one of his buddies txts me out of the blue to mention there's major drama koz the guy I was "seeing" who gave me the weird excuse about not being around is suddenly in big trouble with some girl for being tagged on facebook with some other girl. Ok, now none of this really bothers me because people should have lives and date and things like that. But now, I dunno, things are just tarnished for me a bit because 1) there's a crazy friend more involved in spreading dirt about his friend than helping his friend make wise decisions and 2) well, the guy's not openly admitting that he's dating and that worries me. *sigh* he seemed like one of the good ones, too.

So my question is do I see if it ever comes up/he asks to see me again or do I write him off based on what his crazy weird friend is saying?